Monday, February 9, 2009

Life Change

Layton has brought so much change to our lives, all for the best! He has been wonderful, exciting, the best thing in the world. We are now learning to appreciate the simple pleasures, a 20 minute nap, sweet smiles both awake and sleeping, getting drive through and eating at the park (or in line for the automatic car wash) just to avoid a germy crowd, bath time, taking a drive to the lake just because, snuggly little boy at 2 am, 5 minutes of uninterrupted conversation together, letting the phone ring because it's feeding time, diaper change time, or fussy time, reading nursery rhymes/ simple books every day, take out dinner on Friday nights from Aunt Christy during her weekly visit, waking up 3 -3.5 hours into the night thinking it's time to feed again but just hearing light snoring from the nursery, and Grandma coming over several times a week to hold and spoil Layton to give us a little down time. A new baby has been so energizing (crazy I know), refreshing, and wonderful for us.

5 years ago we were asked several times around our wedding (and since) how soon we planned to have kids "5 years" was always our standard answer, and it was 4 years and 7 months - before Layton arrived. It was the right amount of time for Evan and I - we appreciate each other so much and had time to enjoy our marriage and each other as "just us" before expanding our family. We are so blessed and could not ask for more at this point.

Monday, February 2, 2009

1 week old!

Noteworthy changes
1. Almost outgrowing newborn size clothes, toes are touching the end!
2. Gaining more of an appetite, takes twice as long to eat as 6 days ago.
3. Getting more aware of surroundings.
4. Sleeping 3 hour stretches most nights.
5. Eyes are brown
6. Loves our dog Tucker, kisses and all.
7. Red spots disappearing



Homecoming Day!





Layton James and Daddy


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Layton James Arrived!

Greetings! Layton James Hopkins finally made his appearance Friday, January 23rd at 10:19 am. He weighted 7 lbs 15 oz and was 21 1/2 inches.

The story of his arrival was a journey, much like our entire pregnancy. We first started having contractions Tuesday night (sleepless night #1), but only every 10 minutes or so; Wednesday night the contractions went to every 5 minutes and we headed to the hospital. We were admitted about 7:30 pm Wednesday night (sleepless night #2) and the plot thickens. Thursday morning not much had changed and the Dr's decided at 9:50 am to break my water, after walking the halls most of the day, having contractions, and only getting clear liquids not much was happening. Thursday night (almost sleepliess night #3) 7:30 pm I broke down and asked for pain meds via IV - heavenly relief!! The medication had to be pushed about every 30 min though. Around 10pm the CRNA was on-site for an emergency c section and I recieved an epidural, talk about relief!! The next 3-4 hours passed with no action noticed as we were sleeping, first time in 3 nights. Bless Evan's heart for 2 limited sleep nights in the hospital recliner, he is such a trooper. Around 4 am we tried pushing as the pain was increasing, after 2 hours I was begging for the baby to be sucked out or use forceps anything to help - we were spent, emotionally and physically. The decision was made to transfer me to Scott City for an emergency C-Section as their CRNA on staff could perform a spinal. Thus we set off on our first ever ambulance ride, Cori our driver, Evan, Dr Liu and Tonya the nurse; Cori humored me and we ran lights and sirens the entire 45 miles and even got a police escort in Scott City. After what seemed forever, we (Evan and I) plus the OR team, 3 Drs, and my best friend at the time the CRNA, made it to the operating room for the spinal and arrival of our son. The best news in 38 hours, "get ready he's about to come out" then his cry...it brought tears to my eyes, our son was finally here! We were all safe and sound. Layton was such a strong baby, through the entire labor, pain meds, and everything he never showed signs of distress.

It was a journey but so well worth it. Evan has been the world's best husband and father, he went through so much with me and we are so much closer now. The meanest thing I said to him the entire time was "get over your scrubs being too small and deal with it".

After three 3 days in the hospital, our families and best friends visiting we got to come home. We are learning more and more each day. Layton has his ups and crankies and sleeps fairly well at night all things considered. He has been quite an eater and came out sucking on the nurses finger even. Evan has been amazing with Baby Layton and housework, we are at a 50 / 50 split on the diaper and dressing duties I think.

We are thankful for God, each other, our families, our guardian angels, wonderful medical staff both in Tribune and Scott City, and our son Layton James. We are very blessed.

Friday, January 2, 2009

Happy New Year!

New Year's Resolution - update our blog more often!

Happy 2009! The year has started out very quiet and relaxing we are still awaiting the happy and healthy arrival of "Peanut" our little bundle of joy, we are getting very anxious to meet him. We still have a week or two until the "official" due date though. We did install the car seat yesterday, perhaps that will prompt him...

Christmas was nice but very different for us this year. For the first time in 28 (27 living years) I missed Christmas with my family and Christmas Eve festivities at Grandma and Grandpa Poore's. The week was very hard on me since we didn't see any of my family. We recived lots of phone calls and one very memorable "Christmas Caroling" voicemail from the St. Louis and Kansas City family, it was a hoot. One part I missed the most was my nephews and cousins opening gifts, the younger kids are so fun to watch. Evan's family was wonderful, we all went to Christmas Eve services together and had a nice dinner Christmas Day.

Happy New Year to you and yours - may 2009 bring much joy, happiness, and prosperity.